It’s time to truly reach your own peace, happiness and wholeness

We understand it may feel like a big choice to invest in yourself and your relationship, something still quite new in Vietnam. So you will surely want to know what value you will receive. As women, we don’t hesitate to invest in our children, our parents, our husbands… and we always hesitate over money spent on ourselves. But do you know this: happy parents are the greatest inheritance we leave our children? (Zen Master Thích Nhất Hạnh)

A happy relationship with our husband or wife is the best thing we have to teach our children about love, trust, living together and happiness. Twenty years on, we won’t remember everything our parents said, but we remember very clearly how we felt near them. Was it warm happiness? Or fear, worry and exhaustion?

Investing in our own relationship is investing in our children’s future. And the relationship skills you gain in this programme can be applied successfully in other relationships too, with your children, friends and colleagues, helping you shape the life you dream of.

The value of a happy, meaningful relationship, and of a free and fulfilling life, cannot be measured. Many people who realise their marriage doesn’t suit them have spent a great deal of time and no small sum on divorce procedures, not to mention the energy and effort spent thinking through options, and the long stretch of struggling with feeling unhappy and unfulfilled in the relationship.

Before that, many couples say they spent a lot of money on trips and holidays together, hoping to find joy again… but it never truly solved the problem. The deeper issues lie in the unconscious. If we don’t face and work with them, and keep ignoring or setting them aside, we fall into an endless loop of limiting beliefs and automatic behaviours and reactions, leading to long chains of exhaustion and tension: chasing, pushing the other person away, arguing, blaming, the cold war, suppressing… in the current relationship, or repeating in future ones.

The truth is, when your relationship is healthy and growing, you feel happy, fulfilled and whole every day. And then you have the freedom and strength to bring about whatever you dream of.

Besides, we offer this programme at a very reasonable fee, with policies suited to Vietnamese people. We also offer a guarantee: a 100% refund within the first 30 days of joining if you find the programme isn’t helping you.

We truly feel that investing in YOU and your relationship is the greatest investment, with the highest value, that you can make. Research shows that the quality of our lives and our happiness is shaped most by the quality of our closest relationship. So we hope you will be happy being yourself, with a relationship that is fullest in the value and meaning of your life!

We can get so used to conflict and disconnection that we no longer notice how exhausting, stressful and even painful it really is.

My coach told me: “If you tell yourself it’s not that bad, or think your problem will go away on its own, the truth is that you may be denying it, or not yet seeing clearly how it keeps you from a relationship that is truly free and happy. If you are not happy in your relationship now, or have never experienced the relationship of your dreams, you are giving up one of the greatest joys of being alive.”

If we know things can be BETTER, why do we accept “not that bad”? Once we know we can love ourselves more, we can no longer accept not listening to ourselves or treating ourselves badly. If you knew there was a path that could lead you to become a better partner and have a better relationship, would you want to try it?

I have heard many clients’ stories of how “after a while”, “time turns even the worst mess into mud”: the issues are forgotten and they carry on living, still side by side; or they have separated and think it is “done”. But even if you have separated, if you haven’t thoroughly worked through the wounds you carried from the past, from childhood or from that relationship, those wounds are still there. They don’t disappear, and you may spend many more years struggling with them, until you truly face them without avoiding or burying them any longer.

There is a reason you are reading these lines; something in you led you here. I hope you will take a little time to listen more deeply to yourself, and trust more the heart that is speaking, inviting you to reach out and receive support in caring for the most important relationship of your life. When you begin to see and touch new possibilities, to see what could happen differently, you will no longer regret it or wonder why you chose to step in.

Perhaps you think that although you don’t have the relationship you want, what if that’s simply your “fate”; or that your problem runs too deep, the pain is too great, you can never be different, that trust once lost can never be rebuilt, that you may as well accept things as they are and be content with them, that you are stuck in a relationship or a destiny that will never fulfil your dreams.

If you do nothing, all of that may come true. However, it is quite possible that none of it is true, and that neither staying nor leaving is the answer. With loving companionship and practical tools, I will walk with you on your inner work journey: deep change at the very core of your being, healing and transforming the pain you have been through, being heard and acknowledged, and from there rebuilding trust in your own worth, needs and dreams.

We also guarantee your satisfaction 100%. If you join the coaching and don’t feel you’ve received any value within the first 30 days, just get in touch and we will refund 100% of your fee.

We know you have many other important things in your life that need your energy and attention, and sometimes you may feel exhausted and not want to think about love or romantic relationships at all. But like a financial investment, investing time in yourself is always what matters most and has the greatest impact on every other part of life. As you walk this path deep into the core of your soul, you will find it is not only a search for a lover or life partner, romance, love or marriage; it can affect your whole life. You will begin to notice the deep-rooted beliefs that have shaped much of how you react and act, whether you love or don’t, hold on or let go, and at the same time learn to move beyond them with a new awareness, freeing you from the past to welcome a life of freedom and genuine happiness.

If you choose a relationship that accompanies and nurtures growth, you will even have more time, energy and confidence to realise your dreams. Living a balanced, fulfilling life is about adjusting how we use our time for what matters most to us.

And when you truly make yourself and your relationships (whether with yourself or with someone else) a priority in life, you will always be able to find the time (and every other resource) for it.

No. This is a non-religious programme, not tied to any belief system at all. The foundation of the coaching here is psychological science, connection practices, and tools that have been tested in practice.

You may be religious, not religious, or still searching for your own beliefs… all are welcome. No one is pressed to believe anything foreign to them. What matters most is that you come with an open heart and a wish to improve your relationships.

Rather than “dogma” or “lecturing”, the programme focuses on personal experience, conversations and concrete practices you can apply right away in everyday life. The core values here are respect, honesty and safety for every person in the relationship.

I will never impose the idea that you “must stay” or “must leave”; that decision belongs to you and your partner. The role of coaching is not to give advice or judgments for you, but to help you see the possibilities clearly: is there still a chance to repair things? Can the relationship move toward more respect and safety? Or would a peaceful, conscious and clear separation be the best choice for both of you?

In many cases, after a few coaching sessions, couples find a way to reconnect deeply and continue together with new understanding of how to build a healthy relationship. Others, after seeing themselves and their partner clearly, choose to separate gently and responsibly, and that is also a positive outcome if it lets both live more truthfully and peacefully. My aim is to provide the tools, space and support for you to make a wise, responsible decision that best fits your own values.

The answer: it depends on your goals and how complex the issue is. Some couples find clarity in the first 1–2 sessions (for example, understanding each other better on a specific topic, or learning a communication skill to avoid repeating the same conflict). For deeper issues, such as old patterns, wounds from the past or long-running conflict, it usually takes a path of a few months to bring about lasting change.

In practice: change that is quick and lasting tends to come when you are ready to commit and spend time practising on your own at home every day, and use the coaching session to reflect on and go deeper into that practice. I always begin with a discovery session to understand each person’s context, goals, needs and level of commitment. From there I suggest a suitable path (for example, a short package of 3–4 sessions for a specific goal, or a 3-month package for deeper change). Throughout, you will also receive review and practice materials, with continuous support at your own pace to apply what you’ve learned effectively.

Of course! It’s wonderful that we live in an age when relationships can openly exist in many different forms. I’m here to help you build the healthiest version of any kind of relationship, as long as it truly honours and values both of you.

I’ve also found that most of the relationship processes and tools in the Relationship Compass™ work wonderfully, not only in romantic love, but also in improving many other relationships in life: with family, children, friends, colleagues and more.

The aim of coaching is to create a safe, non-judgmental space full of support and companionship, so you can be your truest self. We can meet online over Zoom, or in person at a quiet café in Hanoi. You will always have a conversation full of light, with open questions, gentle guidance and plenty of useful tools.

Almost every couple who has worked with me wishes they hadn’t spent so many years struggling on their own. Many couples say that coaching sessions with me feel like a date!